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Nq64 Arcade Bar - Leeds的点评
点评：Went here on a first date with someone. Drinks were overpriced but the vibe was okay.
The caucasian, chubby bouncer started complaining when the girl I was with sat on me and asked her to leave. She did get off me but started arguing about why he targeted her out of everyone. I told him to give me time to speak to her as the situation was escalating as she felt targeted due to her ethnicity and he was being rude and said, “I am not your brother, take her out,” while giving me no chance to speak to her without him interrupting. Eventually he laid hands on her and tried dragging her, and I held her back telling him not to touch her, then he called for backup from the other bouncer.
After a bit more back and forth with the woman, he held her and dragged her out really fast and spilled the drinks on my phone in the process whilst bruising her arms. He seemed upset because he was spoken back to. He gave no chance for me to speak to her and was completely unreasonable and extremely rude. I took her things and left shortly later, as everything happened so fast, and I was surprised that he would lay his hands on a girl like that with no consequences, but no other staff seemed to care. I came out and his colleague said, “You guys need to follow instructions,” and I said, “How am I supposed to follow instructions if you give me no chance to speak to her and de-escalate the situation and he keeps dragging her?” Even the original bouncer who did all this said, “See how things like this will end up if you don’t listen.” I told him that if he laid his hands on someone's partner like that in another country it could end very badly for him. Overall, extremely rude and unprofessional behaviour.
The girl went on to report the incident to the police herself too.
The caucasian, chubby bouncer started complaining when the girl I was with sat on me and asked her to leave. She did get off me but started arguing about why he targeted her out of everyone. I told him to give me time to speak to her as the situation was escalating as she felt targeted due to her ethnicity and he was being rude and said, “I am not your brother, take her out,” while giving me no chance to speak to her without him interrupting. Eventually he laid hands on her and tried dragging her, and I held her back telling him not to touch her, then he called for backup from the other bouncer.
After a bit more back and forth with the woman, he held her and dragged her out really fast and spilled the drinks on my phone in the process whilst bruising her arms. He seemed upset because he was spoken back to. He gave no chance for me to speak to her and was completely unreasonable and extremely rude. I took her things and left shortly later, as everything happened so fast, and I was surprised that he would lay his hands on a girl like that with no consequences, but no other staff seemed to care. I came out and his colleague said, “You guys need to follow instructions,” and I said, “How am I supposed to follow instructions if you give me no chance to speak to her and de-escalate the situation and he keeps dragging her?” Even the original bouncer who did all this said, “See how things like this will end up if you don’t listen.” I told him that if he laid his hands on someone's partner like that in another country it could end very badly for him. Overall, extremely rude and unprofessional behaviour.
The girl went on to report the incident to the police herself too.
翻译：第一次和朋友约会就去了这家酒吧。酒水价格偏高，但氛围还不错。
我身边的女孩坐在我身上时，那个白人胖保安开始抱怨，我让她离开。她虽然从我身上下来了，但开始和他争论为什么他偏偏针对她。我告诉他，让我和她谈谈，因为情况越来越糟，她觉得自己是因为种族而被针对，而他态度恶劣，还说“我不是你兄弟，把她带走”，根本不给我说话的机会。最后他竟然动手打断我，想把她拖走，我拦住她让他别碰她，然后他就叫来了另一个保安。
和那个女孩又争论了一会儿后，他抓住她，飞快地把她拖了出去，过程中饮料洒在了我的手机上，还把她的胳膊弄伤了。他好像因为被顶撞而恼羞成怒。他根本不给我和她说话的机会，态度极其恶劣，毫无道理。我拿了她的东西，很快就离开了，因为一切发生得太快了。我很惊讶他竟然可以这样对一个女孩动手动脚却不用承担任何后果，但其他工作人员似乎都不在意。我出来后，他的同事说：“你们得听从指示。”我说：“如果你们不给我机会和她沟通，缓和局势，而他却一直拖着她，我怎么可能听从指示？”就连最初动手的那个保安也说：“看看你们不听劝告会落得什么下场。”我告诉他，如果他在其他国家这样对别人的伴侣动手动脚，后果不堪设想。总而言之，他的行为极其粗鲁无礼，非常不专业。
后来，那个女孩也自己报了警。
我身边的女孩坐在我身上时，那个白人胖保安开始抱怨，我让她离开。她虽然从我身上下来了，但开始和他争论为什么他偏偏针对她。我告诉他，让我和她谈谈，因为情况越来越糟，她觉得自己是因为种族而被针对，而他态度恶劣，还说“我不是你兄弟，把她带走”，根本不给我说话的机会。最后他竟然动手打断我，想把她拖走，我拦住她让他别碰她，然后他就叫来了另一个保安。
和那个女孩又争论了一会儿后，他抓住她，飞快地把她拖了出去，过程中饮料洒在了我的手机上，还把她的胳膊弄伤了。他好像因为被顶撞而恼羞成怒。他根本不给我和她说话的机会，态度极其恶劣，毫无道理。我拿了她的东西，很快就离开了，因为一切发生得太快了。我很惊讶他竟然可以这样对一个女孩动手动脚却不用承担任何后果，但其他工作人员似乎都不在意。我出来后，他的同事说：“你们得听从指示。”我说：“如果你们不给我机会和她沟通，缓和局势，而他却一直拖着她，我怎么可能听从指示？”就连最初动手的那个保安也说：“看看你们不听劝告会落得什么下场。”我告诉他，如果他在其他国家这样对别人的伴侣动手动脚，后果不堪设想。总而言之，他的行为极其粗鲁无礼，非常不专业。
后来，那个女孩也自己报了警。
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