点评:My brother and I had gotten into a conflict over something for several years. I was very unhappy about it since we grew up very close. When I consulted Samyak Astrology, the astrologer Upadhyaya ji and Suyog were able to convince me that my approach of dealing with my brother was completely wrong and that I was not getting the right advice from my friends either in this regard. So I changed my behavior one step at a time. First, I stopped saying or sending any conflict-oriented text messages for a month. In fact, I didn’t talk with him much for a month. It created some gap and was a change in pattern that seemed to have started the healing process. Then in the timeline when it was said is harmonious for family relations, I sent him a birthday gift with a simple note that wished him well. They had explained to me that I may not receive an overwhelmingly positive response right away since the conflict had gone very bad. Indeed, I did not receive any response but had started feeling good about all this. Then in a wedding party of our common friend, I met my brother and his demeanor towards me had changed quite positively. We drank beer together like in the past and he thanked me for the gift. Over the next few months, it steadily improved and we have a very good relationship again. I am thankful to the Samyak team for providing such a helpful service which is focused on helping people heal their relationships with each other.
翻译:我和哥哥因为某件事争执了好几年。我们小时候关系很亲密,所以这件事让我非常难过。后来我去咨询了Samyak占星术,占星师Upadhyaya ji和Suyog让我明白,我处理和哥哥关系的方式完全错了,而且朋友们在这方面给我的建议也不正确。于是我开始一步步改变自己的行为。首先,我整整一个月没有发任何带有冲突意味的短信。事实上,整整一个月我都没怎么跟他说话。这造成了我们之间的隔阂,这种模式的改变似乎开启了我们关系的修复过程。之后,在他们认为对家庭关系有利的时期,我给他寄了一份生日礼物,并附上了一张简单的祝福卡片。他们之前跟我解释说,因为之前的冲突非常严重,我可能不会立刻收到非常积极的回应。的确,我没有收到任何回复,但我开始对这一切感到欣慰。后来,在一位共同朋友的婚礼上,我见到了我的哥哥,他对我的态度有了很大的改善。我们像以前一样一起喝啤酒,他还感谢我送的礼物。接下来的几个月里,我们的关系稳步改善,现在又恢复了很好的关系。我非常感谢Samyak团队提供的这项有益的服务,他们致力于帮助人们修复彼此之间的关系。