点评:I’ve never done anything like this before!
I’m a straight guy.
First proper hot day of the year.
Parked for free in Marina multi-storey and walked 10mins to the site.
From a long distance you can just about make out naked bodies but as you get closer your view is obscured from promenade by gravel mounds.
The stretch of beach is maybe 300m long merging with quieter stretches of beach east and west with no shielding side to side.
30 people. 15 fully naked. 28 men. 2 being a bit “weird” at a comfortable distance but harmless.
20% 20-35yrs.
40% 35-55yrs.
40% over 55yrs.
The 2 lines of gravel hills provide 2 lines of natural modesty. People seem to spread out 30m apart.
Most are obviously feeling the same as you. Apprehensive, taking a while to relax and strip off, surreptitiously looking from time to time mostly for reassurance I guess.
Some clothed walkers stroll along.
95% are respectful and don’t make you feel awkward.
Liberating and a little bit of a thrill!
After 45mins sunbathing I worked up the courage to stand up and take the 20 steps to paddle. I was watched but respectfully. It encouraged others to follow suit.
No one I saw was the type to make any women feel awkward. The younger woman I did see was with her partner. Both confidently went straight for a paddle. People did gaze politely but mainly because they were brave enough to splash around. Respect.
I think you have to accept the occasional pervy character. Just let it go. Relax. They’ll disappear soon enough.
All in all I felt safe and respected.
It would feel more comfortable if there were more women but culturally we still have a way to go as a society so the council must take steps to improve security and dissuade the wrong element. Girls, bring your partners and friends and your “game face”.
Be prepared to smile and make eye contact and conversation with a neighbouring stranger.
Steep down into sea so what with stony beach it’s difficult to maintain your dignity when you have to clamber back up!!!
翻译:我以前从来没有做过这样的事!
我是一个直男。
一年中第一个真正炎热的日子。
在 Marina 多层免费停车,步行 10 分钟即可到达现场。
从很远的地方看,你几乎可以辨认出裸体,但当你走近时,你的视线被砾石丘从长廊上遮住了。
这片海滩长约 300 米,与东边和西边更安静的海滩融为一体,没有左右遮挡。
30人。 15 全裸。 28 名男子。 2 在舒适的距离下有点“怪异”但无害。
20% 20-35 岁。
40% 35-55 岁。
40% 超过 55 岁。
两排砾石山提供两排自然谦虚。人们似乎相距30m。
大多数人显然和你有同样的感觉。忧心忡忡,花点时间放松和脱掉衣服,我想我不时偷偷地看,主要是为了安心。
一些穿着衣服的步行者漫步。
95% 是尊重的,不会让你感到尴尬。
解放和一点点刺激!
晒了 45 分钟日光浴后,我鼓起勇气站起来,走 20 步划桨。我被恭敬地注视着。它鼓励其他人效仿。
我见过的任何人都不是那种让任何女人感到尴尬的人。我确实看到的那个年轻女人和她的伴侣在一起。两人都自信地直奔桨。人们确实有礼貌地注视着,但主要是因为他们有足够的勇气四处泼水。尊重。
我认为你必须接受偶尔的变态性格。放手吧。放松。他们很快就会消失。
总而言之,我感到安全和受到尊重。
如果有更多的女性,感觉会更舒服,但从文化上讲,作为一个社会,我们还有很长的路要走,因此理事会必须采取措施改善安全并劝阻错误的分子。女孩们,带上你的伙伴和朋友,带上你的“游戏脸”。
准备好微笑,与附近的陌生人进行眼神交流和交谈。
陡峭地潜入海中,所以在石滩上当你不得不爬回来时很难保持你的尊严!