点评:Namco Funscape Tamworth should hold their heads in shame.
Today at soft play my son was having a great time. All off a sudden he bites a child, we was watching him, we just couldn't get to him in time. He's had months of being absolutely fantastic at soft play and loving life. So today felt no different to any of the other times we've been.
The said child he bit, we went over straight away but before we could apologise the grandparent started having ago at us. Naturally I understand this, but once we said were sorry and explained his autstic she then throws at us that our son shouldn't be going in soft play if he is an attacker.
There was an argument but it stopped and both our kids went off on there way, we kept our son away from this child as most SEN parents know he will now fixate on them. So when I moved him away the grand parent said a sarcy comment, it was ignored until the point it couldn't no more.
She is then trying to get other parents against us. Which as a parent with a special needs child we already find it challenging to go out anywhere without judgment anyways.
So I confronted her to speak to me instead of things behind my back to complete strangers who dont know me or my life. This then resulted in my husband getting Involed and hers.
She is telling me that autisim is not an excuse and he should of been told off, which if it was any of my other 3 I definitely would agree. But my son has level 3 autisim, non verbal, global development delay and a learning disability meaning he has the mind of a 1 year old.
Now most who know my husband knows how he can be but he stayed calm and acted responsibly knowing there was children round us. Her husband did not, he offered my husband to go outside and threatened to bite his nose off.
So we called for the manager, to then they acted completely different. The manager chose to go and sit with them instead of speaking to the people who asked first for him to come.
So his already made his mind up on the situation by the time he's come back and spoken to us, he then comes over and AGREES with what they had said and basically told us we should be attached to Theos hip. Completely ignoring the fact the husband had threatened mine.
As a sen parent my eyes are on my son 24/7. I was sat down for all of 5 minutes whilst I had a drink. This apparently to namco and the grandparents is not allowed. Yet what if it was a neurotypical child who bit another, would it still be the same uproar? No I doubt it.
The worst thing is Namco advertise SEN soft plays. I can assure you we will never go to one again.
翻译:南梦宫趣味乐园塔姆沃思店真该感到羞愧。
今天在软体游乐区,我儿子玩得兴高采烈。突然间,他咬到了另一个孩子。我们一直在留意着他,但没能及时赶到阻止。此前几个月里,他在软体游乐区的表现一直非常出色,也乐在其中。所以今天原本也和以往来玩时没什么两样。
对于被咬到的那个孩子,我们立刻就过去了。可还没等我们道歉,孩子的祖父母就开始责怪我们。对此我自然能够理解。不过,在我们道歉并解释了儿子患有自闭症的情况后,她却对我们说:如果我们的儿子有攻击倾向,就不应该让他去软体游乐区。
当时发生了争吵,但后来平静下来了,我们的两个孩子也各自去玩了。我们特意让儿子远离那个孩子——大多数特殊需求儿童的家长都明白,这种孩子很容易对别人产生执念。所以当我把儿子带离时,那位祖父母说了些阴阳怪气的话,起初我们没理会,可后来实在忍无可忍了。
接着,她又试图挑动其他家长来反对我们。作为有特殊需求孩子的家长,我们本来就觉得不带偏见地带孩子出门已经很困难了。
所以我直接跟她谈,让她有话当面跟我说,而不是背着我跟那些根本不了解我和我孩子情况的陌生人议论。结果我的丈夫也介入了,她丈夫也跟着掺和进来。
她跟我说自闭症不能当作借口,我儿子理应被训斥一顿。换作是我的其他三个孩子,我肯定也会认同这点。但我的儿子患有三级自闭症,还不会说话。他存在全面的发育迟缓以及学习障碍,也就是说他的心智水平只相当于1岁的幼儿。
认识我丈夫的人大多都知道他平时是什么样的人,但这次他保持冷静并尽到了责任,因为他知道周围有孩子在场。而那个女人的丈夫则完全不是这样:他竟挑衅我丈夫到外面去决斗,还威胁说要咬掉他的鼻子。
于是我们叫来了经理,结果他们的表现截然不同。经理选择去和那对夫妻坐在一起,而不是先去和最初请求他过来的人交谈。所以,当他回来与我们谈话时,他其实已经下定决心了。随后他走过来,同意了他们所说的观点,还基本上是在告诉我们:我们应该紧紧跟在西奥身边。他完全无视了我丈夫曾受到威胁这一事实。
作为单亲妈妈,我全天候都密切关注着儿子。我仅坐下来喝了5分钟饮料而已。但在南梦宫和祖父母看来,这样做是不允许的。不过,如果是个神经发育正常的孩子去咬了别人,情况又会如何呢?还会出现同样的骚动吗?不,我表示怀疑。
最糟糕的是南梦宫宣传SEN的软式游戏。我可以保证,我们以后再也不会去参加了。