点评:This was an absolutely dreadful travel experience.
Bob, the director and tour guide of Lifetime Adventures Tour, constantly abused his position to profit off travelers in every possible way.
He made numerous inappropriate and uncomfortable jokes, and frequently commented on my appearances (saying things like "You are very beautiful" or "You look great today"). Bob constantly pried into my relationship statuses and views on marriage, even half-jokingly suggesting "just marry me instead." Throughout the entire trip, he also deliberately initiated a lot of unnecessary and highly uncomfortable physical contact, especially his fondness for putting his arm around travelers' shoulders.
Ultimately, he requested to stay in the same room with me and walked straight into my room.
Bob also frequently and unilaterally defined the relationship as "friends" or "more than friends." When explicitly told that the dynamic was "guide and guest", he completely refused to accept it, showing a total disregard for proper limits.
While repeatedly insisting on this fake "friendship," Bob would constantly bring up his personal financial problems during the tour. He explicitly and implicitly stated that he needed cash, pressuring to pay for additional, excessive expenses.
The most outrageous part was that he eventually straight-up asked me to front money for him, pay on his behalf, or even lend him cash, with amounts reaching hundreds of US dollars.
This entire trip was filled with extreme discomfort. Bob's behavior severely crossed professional and personal boundaries. It is absolutely not recommended for anyone to book a tour with him.
翻译:这是一次极其糟糕的旅行体验。
Lifetime Adventures Tour的负责人兼导游鲍勃,不断滥用职权,想尽一切办法从游客身上牟利。
他开了许多不恰当且令人不悦的玩笑,还经常对我的外貌评头论足(比如“你真漂亮”或“你今天看起来棒极了”)。鲍勃还不断打探我的感情状况以及对婚姻的看法,甚至半开玩笑地建议道:“干脆嫁给我吧。”“在整个旅途中,他还故意发起许多不必要的、让人极为不自在的身体接触,尤其喜欢用手臂搭在旅伴的肩上。
最后,他要求和我住同一个房间,并直接走进了我的房间。
此外,鲍勃还经常单方面将我们之间的关系定义为‘朋友’或‘比朋友更亲密的关系’。当有人明确指出我们之间的关系只是‘导游与游客’时,他完全拒绝接受。”完全无视应有的界限与分寸。
尽管一再强调这种虚假的“友谊”,鲍勃在旅途中却不断提及自己的个人财务问题。他或明或暗地表示自己需要现金,并施压要求我承担那些额外且不必要的开支。最离谱的是,他最终竟直接要求我替他垫付费用,或者借钱给他——数额高达数百美元之多。整个行程都充满了极度不适。鲍勃的言行严重逾越了职业与个人的界限。绝对不建议任何人预订他安排的旅游服务。