点评:During the trip with tour guide Bobosher, he repeatedly harassed me for money and s*x. Upon returning home, I reported this to his boss, Nuriddin.
Nuriddin apologized to me, stating that Bobosher would be fired, and said, "I am so sorry that Bobosher left you with such a terrible impression of Central Asia." At that moment, Nuriddin’s words felt like a brief comfort. Later, I shared this horrific travel experience in public.
Aafter seeing the public review, Nuriddin messaged me, demanding that I not post my "sx life" with Bobosher. The moment Nuriddin framed se*ual coercion as a mere "s*x life," I realized that the compassionate boss who seemed to understand me for a brief second never truly existed.
From the very beginning of my complaint, I made it clear to Nuriddin: the s*ual acts and the money were never voluntary. Bobosher exploited his position as a tour guide and his local dominance to constantly coerce and pressure me into giving in.
During s*x, Bobosher shoved his penis into my mouth. He even choked my neck, claiming it made him more excited and helped him reach climax faster.
That same night around 23:30, Bobosher tried to call me. I did not answer.
The following morning, Bobosher contacted me again. I explicitly told him I did not want to speak on the phone, but he could leave in text messages. What followed was a barrage of text messages filled with subjective accusations and self-serving, misleading assumptions.
In a short period, Bobosher flooded me with massive, highly emotional messages designed to exhaust me so I couldn’t dispute every single word. But I completely reject every one of his claims.
For example:
"Go delete the fake review you wrote with a fake account."
"When are you going to delete that fake review?"
"You gave me that money voluntarily, remember?"
"Back then, you begged me to come into your room."
"You are blackmailing me."
Bobosher relentlessly deployed these false premises to frame me and force me into a defensive position.
It was a Friday morning, and I had my own life. By spamming me with rapid, dense messages, he maliciously forced me into a corner while inflicting immense pressure. English is not my first language; whenever my response was slightly delayed, Bobosher would immediately press me for answers, leaving me no time to dissect and refute his false narrative and vocabulary word by word.
All I could reply in the messages was simply:
-I will not delete the review. (I publicly reiterate here: every word in the review is true.)
-Bobosher was the one who initiated the demand for s*x, using a "shortage of rooms" as a pretext.
-Bobosher's memory is distorted; check the chat logs. (Bobosher was the one demanding money, and I have never blackmailed him.)
Although me made the clear responses, Bobosher kept harassing me based on his fabricated stance, so I replied: "Prove it then! You are much taller than me—how could I possibly pull down your pants? You obviously pulled them down yourself. You are the liar here."
Bobosher continued his intimidation. He then resorted to cursing me, claiming I would go to hell and remember his curse until the day I die.
I don't need his curses, nor do I need to wait for hell. The moment he exposed himself penis, and the moment he choked my neck while he came to reach climax—he had already personally dragged me into hell.
Bobosher threatened me again, stating that if I refused to delete the comment, he would leak my real documents. This once again proves what kind of person Bobosher really is. I provided my ID prior to the trip based on trust in the agency, and now Bobosher is using it as leverage to threaten me.
I publicly declare once again: Every word in my review is based on my true travel experience.
Bobosher was the one constantly begging for money during the trip. I have never asked Bobosher for a single cent.
Even when he asked what condition it would take for me to take down the real review, I still did not ask him for a penny.
He was the one who aggressively demanded s*x.
No matter how many times you say elephants can fly, elephants will never fly. A lie does not become the truth just because Bobosher repeatedly screams his false claims and fabricated premises.
If Nuriddin wishes to have another video call with me to clear anything, he is welcome. But my position remains unchanged: I do not want anyone’s money.
Bobosher Yusupov (his name is in public in Uzbekistan travel systems since he is a liscenced guide) move on to collaborate with other travel agencies. His operations are not limited to Uzbekistan — anyone traveling to Central Asia, please be extremely cautious.
The only reason I gave 3 stars instead of 1 is because Nuriddin's apology once a small light in my darkest moment.
翻译:在跟随导游博博舍尔旅行的过程中,他屡次纠缠我索要钱财并企图发生性关系。回国后,我将此事汇报给了他的上司努里丁。
努里丁向我道歉,称会解雇博博舍尔,还说:“很抱歉,博博舍尔让你对中亚留下了如此糟糕的印象。”当时,努里丁的话给了我一丝安慰。后来,我在公开场合分享了这段恐怖的旅行经历。
看到我的公开评价后,努里丁给我发来了消息。要求我不得发布我与Bobosher的“性生活”相关内容。当Nuriddin把性胁迫行为仅仅描述为“性生活”时,我顿时意识到:那个看似短暂理解我的、富有同情心的老板其实从来就不存在。
从我提出投诉之初,我就向Nuriddin明确表示:那些性行为以及金钱交易都绝非出于自愿。Bobosher利用自己导游的身份及在当地的权势地位,不断胁迫、施压,逼我就范。
在性行为过程中……博博舍把他的阴茎塞进了我的嘴里。他甚至还掐住我的脖子,声称这样能让他更加兴奋,从而更快达到高潮。
就在当晚23点30分左右,博博舍试图给我打电话。我没有接听。
第二天早上,博博舍又联系我。我明确告诉他我不想通电话,但他可以发短信给我。随后他发来大量短信,里面满是主观臆断的指责以及出于自身利益、具有误导性的推测。在短时间内,博博舍尔给我发送了大量情绪极其激动的消息,意图把我搞得精疲力竭,这样我就无法对每一句话都提出反驳。但我完全不接受他的任何说法。
例如:
“去删掉你用假账号写的那个虚假评论。”
“你什么时候才删掉那个虚假评论?”
“那笔钱是你心甘情愿给我的,记得吗?”
“当时,是你求我进你房间的。”
“你在敲诈我。”Bobosher毫不留情地利用这些虚假的前提来构陷我,迫使我陷入被动防守的境地。
那是一个周五的早晨,我也有自己的生活要过。他源源不断地向我发送大量信息,恶意地将我逼入绝境并给我施加巨大压力。英语并非我的母语;每当我回复稍有延迟,Bobosher便立刻催促我给出答案,不给我任何机会去逐字分析并反驳他那些虚假的言论与用词。我在消息中能回复的只有这些:
-我不会删除评论。(我在此公开重申:评论里的每一个字都是真实的。)
-是Bobosher以“房间短缺”为借口,率先提出了性交易的要求。
-Bobosher的记忆出现扭曲了;去看看聊天记录吧。(是Bobosher索要金钱,我从未敲诈过他。)
尽管我做出了明确的回复,Bobosher还是基于自己编造的立场继续骚扰我,于是我回复道:“那你就证明给我看吧!”你比我高得多——我怎么可能拉下你的裤子呢?明显是你自己拉下的。你才是骗子。”
博博舍继续恐吓我。接着他开始咒骂我,说我会下地狱,让我死前都忘不了他的诅咒。
我不需要他的诅咒,也用不着等待地狱。从他露出阴茎的那一刻起,从他在高潮时勒住我的脖子那一刻起——他就已经亲手把我拖入了地狱。Bobosher又威胁我了,他说如果我拒绝删除评论,就会泄露我的身份证件信息。这再次证明了Bobosher究竟是个怎样的人。当初出于对这家旅行社的信任,我才在出行前提供了身份证件;而现在Bobosher却以此作为要挟我的筹码。
我再次公开声明:我的评论中的每一个字都基于我的真实旅行经历。
在旅途中,一直缠着大家要钱的正是Bobosher。我从未向Bobosher索要过一分钱。
即便他询问我需要满足什么条件才会撤下真实的评论,我依然没有向他要过一分钱。
是他主动、急切地索要性服务。
无论你多少次声称大象能飞,大象也永远飞不起来。仅仅因为Bobosher反复叫嚷着那些虚假的言论和捏造的前提,它们也成不了事实。
如果Nuriddin希望再和我进行一次视频通话来澄清一切,他尽管来好了。但我的立场始终不变:我不想要任何人的钱。
博博舍尔·尤苏波夫(作为持证导游,他的名字在乌兹别克斯坦的旅游系统中是公开的)现在开始与其他旅行社合作。他的业务并不仅限于乌兹别克斯坦——任何前往中亚旅游的人务必格外小心。
我给3颗星而非1颗星的唯一原因是:在我最灰暗的时刻,努里丁的道歉犹如一丝光亮,给我带来了些许慰藉。