Condescending, juvenile, and passive aggressive
Wilson County Barbecue的点评
点评:Rude, unpleasant, and immature with an undercurrent of aggression. The bartender was perhaps the most disrespectful person we’ve ever met. There were three groups waiting in line to order for about 15 minutes when a young woman walks in the door. We were next in line and my son makes eye contact with the bartender. Instead of helping us, he calls over the woman at the back of the line and proceeds to take her order. We walk over to note that we were in line first and before we get the words out of our mouth the bartender loudly tells us to “chill out”. We gently explained that it would have been polite to take the customers in order and he rolls his eyes and tells us essentially to shut up and he can take our order now. We start to order and he pulls a juvenile joke in extraordinary poor taste given the situation that he’s closed and we should go back to the other register.
From there it just went downhill with every exchange dripping with sarcasm. Eventually it was my conflict-avoidant teenage son who says we should leave because of the rudeness. My son called it correctly. He said it was passive aggressive behavior masking real aggression underneath. I agree, but would not before talking to the manager. The manager proceeds to make excuses about how understaffed they are and rudely asks: “what do you want me to do about it?”
To top it all off, another guy walks over aggressively to get involved who turns out to be an off duty team member. As we leave they all loudly and sarcastically bid us goodbye
It felt like a restaurant run by a frat house or junior high school students.
翻译:粗鲁、令人不快、不成熟,甚至还带着一丝攻击性。那位酒保可能是我们见过的最无礼的人了。我们三个人排队点单,等了大概15分钟,一位年轻女子走了进来。我们排在队伍的后面,我儿子和酒保眼神接触了一下。他非但没有帮我们,反而叫了排在队伍后面的那位女士过来点单。我们走过去才发现我们是排队的,话还没说完,酒保就大声对我们说“冷静点”。我们礼貌地解释说,按顺序点单顾客才算礼貌,他却翻了个白眼,让我们闭嘴,他现在就可以点单了。我们开始点单,他却开了个幼稚的玩笑,考虑到他已经关门了,我们应该回到另一个收银台,这玩笑真是低俗至极。
从那以后,情况每况愈下,每一次对话都充满了讽刺。最后,我那回避冲突的十几岁儿子说,我们应该离开,因为员工们太粗鲁了。我儿子说得没错。他说,这是一种消极攻击行为,掩盖了真正的攻击性。我同意,但在和经理谈之前不会同意。经理继续找借口说他们人手不足,并粗鲁地问道:“你想让我怎么办?”
更糟糕的是,另一个人气势汹汹地走过来插手,结果发现他是一位下班的团队成员。我们离开时,他们都大声讽刺地和我们道别。
感觉就像一家兄弟会或初中生开的餐馆。