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Vile and malicious messaging towards men.
Big Top Live的点评
点评：This is the first review I have ever written. I've been to Big Top with my wife 5 times now and we have absolutely loved it. Great beer, great service, amazing food... Today is the first time either of us have used the restroom, and it is abhorrent.
The male restroom is covered in extraordinarily demeaning quotes to undermine masculinity (pictured). It contains the verbiage: "I'm Tired" / "You'll never change" / "I don't even know you anymore" / "I'll just get my dad to do it" / "This is why I have to repeat myself". These effectively are intended to convey the sentiment: "No one will sleep with you" / "You're irrevocably irredeemable" / "You're incompetent". These are all horribly viscous attacks targeting men.
I asked my wife to check the female restroom to see if it is a similar theme (pictured) - and it is revealing of the message that Big Top would like to convey. The woman's restroom contained affirmations, such as: "Don't be a lady, be a legend" / "I am beautiful, loving, and powerful" / "I love who I am".... Despite the positivity, the female restroom made both my wife and the waitress severely uncomfortable. When introducing the quotes in the male restroom as a comparison - they were both appalled.
It is obvious the intention of both the designer and the owner, these are not light hearted quips but direct attacks at fundamental aspects of masculinity. This choice is extremely toxic, malicious, and unacceptable. Why demonize what likely makes up more than 50% of clientele? In my short discussions on this, the 5 men in the restroom, my wife, and the waitress were all disgusted by the messaging. I will not be returning.
The male restroom is covered in extraordinarily demeaning quotes to undermine masculinity (pictured). It contains the verbiage: "I'm Tired" / "You'll never change" / "I don't even know you anymore" / "I'll just get my dad to do it" / "This is why I have to repeat myself". These effectively are intended to convey the sentiment: "No one will sleep with you" / "You're irrevocably irredeemable" / "You're incompetent". These are all horribly viscous attacks targeting men.
I asked my wife to check the female restroom to see if it is a similar theme (pictured) - and it is revealing of the message that Big Top would like to convey. The woman's restroom contained affirmations, such as: "Don't be a lady, be a legend" / "I am beautiful, loving, and powerful" / "I love who I am".... Despite the positivity, the female restroom made both my wife and the waitress severely uncomfortable. When introducing the quotes in the male restroom as a comparison - they were both appalled.
It is obvious the intention of both the designer and the owner, these are not light hearted quips but direct attacks at fundamental aspects of masculinity. This choice is extremely toxic, malicious, and unacceptable. Why demonize what likely makes up more than 50% of clientele? In my short discussions on this, the 5 men in the restroom, my wife, and the waitress were all disgusted by the messaging. I will not be returning.
翻译：这是我写的第一篇评论。我和妻子已经去过 Big Top 5 次了，我们非常喜欢它。啤酒很棒，服务很棒，食物很棒……今天是我们第一次使用洗手间，真是令人厌恶。
男洗手间里贴满了极具贬义的引语，以贬低男子气概（如图所示）。其中包含以下语句：“我累了”/“你永远不会改变”/“我甚至不认识你了”/“我只会让我爸爸来做”/“这就是为什么我不得不重复自己”。这些话实际上是为了传达这样的情绪：“没有人会和你睡觉”/“你无可救药”/“你无能”。这些都是针对男性的极其恶毒的攻击。
我让我妻子检查女洗手间，看看它是否有类似的主题（如图所示）——它揭示了 Big Top 想要传达的信息。女厕所里有这样一些肯定语录：“不要做淑女，要做传奇”/“我美丽、可爱、强大”/“我爱我自己”……尽管这些语录很积极，但女厕所让我妻子和女服务员都感到非常不舒服。当我将男厕所里的语录作为比较时，他们都感到震惊。
设计师和老板的意图很明显，这些不是轻松的俏皮话，而是对男性气概基本方面的直接攻击。这种选择极其有害、恶毒且不可接受。为什么要妖魔化可能占顾客总数 50% 以上的人？在我对此的简短讨论中，厕所里的 5 名男性、我的妻子和女服务员都对这些信息感到厌恶。我不会再来了。
男洗手间里贴满了极具贬义的引语，以贬低男子气概（如图所示）。其中包含以下语句：“我累了”/“你永远不会改变”/“我甚至不认识你了”/“我只会让我爸爸来做”/“这就是为什么我不得不重复自己”。这些话实际上是为了传达这样的情绪：“没有人会和你睡觉”/“你无可救药”/“你无能”。这些都是针对男性的极其恶毒的攻击。
我让我妻子检查女洗手间，看看它是否有类似的主题（如图所示）——它揭示了 Big Top 想要传达的信息。女厕所里有这样一些肯定语录：“不要做淑女，要做传奇”/“我美丽、可爱、强大”/“我爱我自己”……尽管这些语录很积极，但女厕所让我妻子和女服务员都感到非常不舒服。当我将男厕所里的语录作为比较时，他们都感到震惊。
设计师和老板的意图很明显，这些不是轻松的俏皮话，而是对男性气概基本方面的直接攻击。这种选择极其有害、恶毒且不可接受。为什么要妖魔化可能占顾客总数 50% 以上的人？在我对此的简短讨论中，厕所里的 5 名男性、我的妻子和女服务员都对这些信息感到厌恶。我不会再来了。
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